Big Brother

So since many of you are unfamiliar with greek life, and probably don't agree with it, I'll try my best to define everything I am about to explain in this post. In greek life you get a "big" once you join and the following year you get a "little." As a big they are supposed to guide their "little" and mentor them with anything in their life.  Going deeper that than that, I also have two boy bigs. This is the less formal side of receiving a big. In your sorority/fraternity (yes boys get Bigs and Littles to, I did not know this either) you are given a little through a process that matches you up with someone who shares the same interests as you and possibly has the same major. My big is in the business program, much like myself, but I'm nor sure if we have the same interest, we haven't really talked that deep yet. Back on to the subject of boy bigs, this is much less formal, and supposed to be underground. You get a boy big for several reasons; you hang out at a certain fraternity a lot and start to hang out with a guy you strictly see as a friend, or you gain one due to alcohol consumption. I gained both of my bigs in each way. The first one we were at his fraternity partying and as it started to die down, we started to talk some more. Until the next week I kept thinking how he would make a great big brother, and I was right. That following weekend, something dramatic happened and he was there to talk me through it and thats when I asked him the big question "Will you be my big brother?" To celebrate we had a designated driver, yes we were obviously being responsible, drive us to the Moscow Bagel Shop at 2 in the morning. As for my second big, that happened because I hung out at his fraternity a lot (I'll clarify know that they are in separate fraternities and the first one doesn't know about my second one, whoops) and we got along really well. His girlfriend even asked me to be his little because she "highly approves" of me and doesn't think I'd want to make out with him. Which is true, I don't for either of them. Even though you're not supposed to be sexually attracted to your big but sometimes incest happens, and i am making it point for it NOT to happen. All are friend zoned. There was a point to this post I swear, but it's getting to long now so I shall leave it as a cliff hanger for tomorrow. BYE.